6 Ways You Can Turn Your Connect Group Into A Life-Changing Experience

There are some qualities that every Connect Group must have to prosper and multiply:

• Quality biblical content with a Christ-centered focus
• A sense of community
• A rich experience of Christ
• Life change
• Outward impact on the world

God has revealed Himself to us in His Word, and the ultimate goal of studying the Bible together is to point the group to Christ. It’s not about biblical knowledge in itself but about using the Bible as a map that leads us to Jesus.

Every Connect Group needs to experience Christ, not just learn more about the Bible. In no way do we want to move away from the Bible — it is the Word of God — but as you study Scripture, you want to help your group see Jesus in the material you study. Your group should be looking to discover how the text relates to and points to the gospel of Christ and His redemptive work.

Community is the sense within the group that the members are a team, bonded as friends, and committed to each other’s well-being and spiritual growth. This doesn’t happen all at once. Rather, the sign of a healthy, growing group, is one that has an increasing sense of community.

Over the semester, individuals may rejoice together or share in sorrow together. A group moves from being “Todd’s group” or "the men's/women's group" to “our group” as members begin to take ownership. One of your roles as a leader is to help facilitate this, but community is not primarily a leadership issue. It’s a oneness that becomes apparent when individuals come to value others in the group.

As a leader, your role is to stimulate group members to encounter and experience Christ for themselves. One of the biggest obstacles for Connect Group leaders is feeling the need to have all the answers — to have the “map” memorized.

Leaders don’t need to have all the answers — and in fact, you won't. Saying "That's a good question...I don't know, but I'll try to find out" is completely okay — but you do need to experience Christ for yourself and know how to point others to Him. This comes from knowing people’s greatest needs, having an understanding of how real change happens and being skilled at asking good questions that engage the heart.

Each person in your group should taste, see and personally encounter Christ as you come to the Bible.

The most successful Connect Groups are about life change. Each week, the members of your group will show up in various cycles of life — coming from great days, middling days, and those days when life just seems hard. Their conditions may be obvious or not so obvious.

As a leader, allow the Bible to expose brokenness and help the group follow the passage as it points toward a solution in Jesus Christ. This is how life change happens. If a group stops short of being a catalyst for life change, it has fallen short of all God intends for it.

One thing that’s so easy to neglect while leading a Connect Group is communicating God’s purpose for the world and how we fit into the picture. Simply consuming content is not the only ingredient needed for growth. Rather, knowing how God can use your Connect Group in His plan is a critical ingredient. Catching His heart for people around the world is motivating.

His love moves us to action. You’re not here just for theory, debate, or platitudes. You exist to glorify God and be used by Him. Sometimes, when you share your faith, there’s an overwhelming sense that “God can use me!”

How do you build vision in your group? Here are some suggestions.

Highlight sections from a visionary book or magazine like:

• “The Master Plan of Evangelism” by Robert E. Coleman.
• “Tell It Often, Tell It Well” by Mark McCloskey.
• “Disciple Are Made, Not Born” by Walter A. Henrichsen.
• “Hudson Taylor’s Spiritual Secret” by Dr. and Mrs. Howard Taylor.
• “In the Gap” by Wilfredo de Jesús.
• “Spiritual Leadership” by J. Oswald Sanders.
• "The Four Priorities" by John Tolson and Larry Krieder

Another element for your Connect Group is training. Share practical, helpful, specific ideas on how to live and minister to others. How do you have a quiet time? How do you study the Bible? Can you share Christ comfortably with a friend? How do you answer someone’s questions about Christianity? Can you share your testimony in three minutes? How do you help a new Christian grow?

Use the Operation World Prayer website and a map to show what God is doing around the world.

Or discuss a passage from the Bible about engaging in active service for Christ.

Prayer is an expression of your dependence on God. By praying with your group, you’ll help people see their need for Him. Most Connect Groups have time set aside for prayer, but often it’s a quick sharing of requests for the week.

Sometimes you need to ask things like:

• “How has God answered prayer this week?” 
• “What are you trusting Him for?” 

When people in your group see God’s answers to prayer, they get pumped! When you pray together, a powerful bond forms in the group.

It’s also important to pray for other people, issues and events outside your small group. Here are some other things to consider for prayer:

• Application of the Bible study topic.
• The group’s outward impact in light of the study.
• Expression of worship (songs, Psalms, etc.).
• Upcoming events.
• Personal ministry development.
• Laborers for the harvest.
• Ministry leaders.